The Real Wedding!

During this time it is very often asked, Big Fat Indian Wedding.. eh? Punju style? Dilli ki shadi? 

Marriage?  It doesn’t matter if it qualifies as a great Indian wedding, a wedding at an exotic surrounding, or set with a theme. Similarly, Bengali, Telugu, Tamil, Pahadi or Punjabi doesn’t matter either…

A real marriage is where everyone, every single person is happy. Everyone is excited and eagerly joins to bring the new member home. Because that new person from that moment is as close and personal as they have been in all these years. The wedding is one where all transcend their love, affection, authority and respect at that auspicious moment to the bride. With this noble ritual in mind, no matter what way the marriage is conducted it shall always be beautiful. Where in those few hours every moment that we live, is as vivid, bright and true as in 3D.

The real marriage shall charm the Lords as they shower their blessings with rose petals and the sky shall glitter with stars. The air would have a fresh, flowery scent and everyone would be high on happiness. Everyone who matters and mattered is together. All the loved ones are together, happy wishing and blessing. Where the past is forgotten and future is beckoned.

A real marriage is where the key element is a treat of the five senses. Where it is celebration with Music, Delicacies, Huge Pooh Bear Hugs, Mantras and dazzling brilliance. Where the power is emanating from the bond in the family and togetherness. Not alone, never alone.

I am blessed I have one round the corner. Everyone’s invited!